Monday, May 02, 2005

Pressures on a Bright Kid

Andrea - I feel kind of stressed out. People at school...teachers...keep talking to me about college. They give me advice. What did I want to do? Where do I want to go? What do I want to be? They all want me to major in their subject.

Me - That's normal. They're excited for you. They know your potential.

Andrea - But I'm only in 8th grade. It sounds scary. It's too much....I'm only in 8th grade.

Me - Honey, listen to me. Don't go to college. Take a year off after high school. Go to junior college. Stay home and bake cookies with me for a year. Travel. Get a job..............It's all totally fine with us. Whatever works for you. We love you.

Very long pause..................................................

Andrea - No.... I want to go to college.

Me - Don't worry about it for a few years.

Andrea - It's just that........everyone has their ideas of what I should do. I wanna decide for myself.......I want them to leave me alone.

1 comment:

Laurent said...

Well, looks like the Bright Kid is right...
Why don't you give it a try and stop giving advices ? Why not letting the tree growing it's own way ?